Lesson 2 · Survival Italian

Essere & Avere

To be, and to have — the two verbs behind almost every sentence you'll need at the comune, the shop, or a first conversation.

Why this next

You can already greet someone and say your name (Lesson 1). The next gap is saying what you are and what you need — "I'm here for...", "I have an appointment", "I need...". Both run through just two verbs: essere (to be) and avere (to have). Learn io, tu and Lei forms of each and you can build most of the sentences a bureaucracy visit or a shop errand actually requires.

Formal grammar

Essere — to be (present tense, full paradigm)

PersonFormExample
io (I)sonoSono Andrea. — I'm Andrea.
tu (you, informal)seiSei di qui? — Are you from here?
lui/lei/Lei (he/she/you-formal)èÈ il direttore? — Are you the director?
noi (we)siamoSiamo qui da poco. — We've been here only a short while.
voi (you, plural)sieteSiete pronti? — Are you (all) ready?
loro (they)sonoSono i miei vicini. — They're my neighbours.

Note the curiosity: io sono and loro sono are identical — "I am" and "they are" share the same verb form. Context and the pronoun (usually dropped, see below) disambiguate.

Avere — to have (present tense, full paradigm)

PersonFormExample
io (I)hoHo un appuntamento. — I have an appointment.
tu (you, informal)haiHai tempo? — Do you have time?
lui/lei/Lei (he/she/you-formal)haHa un documento? — Do you have an ID?
noi (we)abbiamoAbbiamo due valigie. — We have two suitcases.
voi (you, plural)aveteAvete domande? — Do you (all) have questions?
loro (they)hannoHanno un appartamento vicino. — They have an apartment nearby.

Exception: both are irregular

Neither verb follows the regular -are/-ere/-ire conjugation patterns you'll meet later — their forms (sono, sei, è… and ho, hai, ha…) simply have to be memorized as-is. That's normal: "to be" and "to have" are irregular in almost every language, because they're used so constantly that they resist getting smoothed into a regular pattern over the centuries.

Avere shows up in idioms where English uses "to be"

A named exception worth knowing early: Italian uses avere (to have) for physical/mental states that English expresses with "to be." Get caught out by this once and you won't forget it.

avere fame / seteto be hungry / thirsty (lit. "to have hunger/thirst")
avere caldo / freddoto be hot / cold
avere paurato be afraid
avere frettato be in a hurry
avere ragione / tortoto be right / wrong
avere ... annito be ... years old (e.g. Ho 30 anni — I'm 30)
avere bisogno dito need (lit. "to have need of") — from Lesson 2's phrases below
One thing to flag, not learn yet Later, when you learn compound past tenses (e.g. passato prossimo, "I went," "I ate"), you'll need to choose between avere and essere as a helper verb — most verbs take avere, but a specific set (movement, change of state, reflexive verbs) take essere instead, which also then requires the past participle to agree in gender/number like an adjective. Not needed yet — flagging it because it's the single biggest reason essere and avere matter beyond their own meanings.

Put them to work: bureaucracy-ready phrases

Sono qui per il permesso di soggiorno.I'm here for the residence permit.
Ho un appuntamento alle dieci.I have an appointment at ten.
Ho bisogno di aiuto.I need help. (lit. "I have need of help")
Formal grammar

Why you keep seeing sentences with no "I" or "you"

Italian is a pro-drop language: the verb ending already encodes who's doing the action (-o for io, -i for tu, and so on), so the subject pronoun is usually just dropped. "Sono qui per il permesso di soggiorno" doesn't need io in front — the -o ending on sono already says "I." You only add the pronoun back in for emphasis or contrast: "Io sono italiano, lei è francese" ("I'm Italian, she's French" — the pronouns highlight the contrast). This is also why learning the full paradigm above matters more than it might seem: often the verb ending is the only clue to who's being talked about.

Free bonus You already have everything you need to say "Non ho capito" — "I didn't understand" — because it just reuses ho. It's one of the most useful sentences you'll say in your first weeks; keep it close.
Primary source Watch Yabla Italian — "Basic Verbs Essere and Avere", which shows both verbs used in real Italian film/TV clips with dual-language captions, so you hear them in authentic speech, not just a drill.
Watch: essere & avere

Lucrezia walks through both verbs with pronunciation and example sentences.

Practice

At the comune desk: "___ un appuntamento alle 10." Which word goes in the blank?

Fill in the blank: "___ qui per il permesso di soggiorno." (I'm here for the residence permit.)


The official asks you: "___ un documento?" (Do you have an ID?) — which form of avere are they using, given they'd address you formally?

Fill in the blank (noi-form of avere): "___ due valigie." (We have two suitcases.)


You're hungry. How do you say so in Italian?

Stuck? Ask your teacher (this agent) anything unclear — why è has an accent (it distinguishes the verb from the conjunction e, "and"), the essere/avere auxiliary split flagged above, or anything else.

→ Open the reference cheat sheet for this lesson.